Itchy just talkin’ about it. Part 1.

There is one big problem with my mansion. (Other than the fact that I can hear my neighbor breathing, that is.) Spiders. Of the Daddy Long Leg variety. Oh, sure, you can go ahead and tell me how harmless they are, how “helpful.” You can tell me the sky is green and the grass is blue. SPIDERS ARE SCARY.

(As are ALL insects. No species is spared in my absolute hatred of all things creepy and crawly.)

When I first moved into my mansion, I told John, “I’m so happy we’re neighbors! YOU CAN KILL THE BUGS!” Not that I was expecting much; just the normal amount of critters that one might expect. And you know what John said? “Bugs? (Then indecipherable muttering and general sound-making as if I was an idiot for even suggesting such a thing.) We rarely see any bugs.” Then his nose grew three feet long.

The first daddy long leg (DLL from the point forward) was chillin’ by one of my electrical outlets. I kept an eye on him for a little while and when he was suddenly just… gone… I shrugged and went about my day. You see, I can’t kill them. Even that terrifies me. I’ve seen my mom spray insects. The bug freaks out, my mom freaks out, I freak out. Everyone is shrieking and flailing about. It’s not pretty.

People, I know it’s not rational. I get that. Truly, I do. I realize the absolute stupidity in my way of thinking. But fear? Real, true fear? It’s absurd and foolish and there’s absolutely no reasoning with it.

That first DLL reappeared the next day, next to the same outlet. Chillin.’ A couple hours later, gone again. Then there was the one in the corner below my window. And, later, one that was crawling across the door to my closet.

All of them (or maybe they are one in the same?) moseyed on within an hour or two. I’m fine with that! Again, COMPLETELY IRRATIONAL, but I’d rather I go on my merry way and they go on theirs. No harm, no foul. Just go. Please, please, just go.

A coupla days ago, I came home and discovered one loungin’ in a corner of the room. He wasn’t doing anything so I went about my business. I was even starting to think this whole let-them-live-in-peace attitude I’d recently adapted was a sign that the fear didn’t have quite the stronghold on me it’d had in the past. I’m an adult. A (relatively) mature one. And I’ve survived a divorce. What’s an itty bitty critter gonna do?

Then something happened and I realized I might not have come as far as I’d hoped.

I stopped by the mansion to change before heading out again. I sat down to pee (and quickly as I was in a hurry). From my perch I could see into the shower and, for crying out loud, another spider. I finished my business and stood, just watching.

I couldn’t let it stay. This is my shower we’re talking about. I REFUSE TO SHOWER WITH SPIDERS.

I’m embarrassed to admit what happened next.

I didn’t know what to do. It was on the move. I had to act fast. Shockingly, I don’t own bug spray. (WHY DON’T I OWN BUG SPRAY?!) I thought to grab a bottle of whatever bathroom cleaner was closest, but that would mean leaving the room and in my irrational fear-filled mind, that would have given the spider too good a chance to escape. The closest thing to me was a small bottle of water I keep handy for ironing.

I should have realized what sort of minimal impact this would have.

I sprayed and sprayed and sprayed until I was nearly out of water. That fucker, crippled though he may have been, fought the good fight. I realized I was probably torturing the poor thing, which was so not my intention. (Did you not read the paragraphs above in which I LIVE AND LET LIVE?)

I had to grab something stronger than water, something that would clue said spider in on the fact that he wasn’t just CAUGHT IN A RAIN STORM, something that would finally put us both out of our misery. While he was down, temporarily, for the count, I dashed into the closet and grabbed… windex.

Effing glass cleaner.

I don’t know why. I guess I just figured it’d have toxic chemicals that SURELY would kill an itsy bitsy spider. But, no. I just kept torturing the poor bastard.

At this point, a solid ten minutes have passed. Doesn’t sound like much, I know, but in real spider-killing time? An. E. Ternity.

Finally, finally, it was down. If it wasn’t dead at this point, it was only a matter of moments. My skin was crawling. My scalp was tingling. I felt itchy all over. I was certain his whole extended arachnid family was going to come crawling through the walls in a scene straight from Arachnophobia to attack me. I probably wouldn’t have blamed them.

I turned the shower on and let the water run for several minutes. I was so tense. My shoulders were aching; I was on the verge on tears.

I wanted, more than anything, to feel some sort of accomplishment. I had, after all, killed a spider. For what may have been the first time ever in my life. I should have felt proud. No, it hadn’t been at all graceful and I was sure that when the time came I’d be taken to task for my inhumane treatment of another of His creatures. But I had done it. I had killed a bug. The very thing that haunts my nightmares and sometimes even prevents me from living my life. But I didn’t feel proud. I felt horrible. Awful.

I didn’t know whom I felt worse for: the spider or me. Because at that moment I felt certain I would have to move. The spiders and I would not coexist. If they wouldn’t leave, then I would have to.

To be continued…

This entry was posted in Stephanie Harsh. Bookmark the permalink.

10 Responses to Itchy just talkin’ about it. Part 1.

  1. Debbie W says:

    Oops…hit a combination of keys and suddenly my comment posted and I wasn’t done yet. :/ Just reading this creeped me out. Daddy long legs…spiders…shudder. What do they need all of those legs for anyways?? The better to crawl on you? I have an unreasonable fear of creatures myself…which by the way amuses the office to the point they like to make sure I see them skittering along so they can watch me freak. And like you, I know it is insane because I’m a thousand times larger than they are…but still…shudder.

    • Stephanie Harsh says:

      Someone who understands! Finally! Anyone I’ve worked with for longer than a WEEK knows of my fear. A couple people made the mistake of just HINTING about pranking me with an insect. I made it perfectly clear to them that I would go to HR and cause a stink the likes of which this hotel has never seen. No one’s ever done anything.

  2. rory says:

    Here’s a fun fact that’ll help you kill them.
    From what I understand, DLL’s are among the most poisonous spiders around, but, their fangs are too soft to pierce human skin.
    So kill away, take out some pent up something or other.
    Use a shoe.

    • Stephanie Harsh says:

      I can’t. And, trust me, I’ve got some pent up stuff… but I can’t kill them. It SCARES me. Really, truly scares me… to get anywhere NEAR them. I’m frustrated just talking about it.

  3. Gayle says:

    Cleaning sprays are my favorite bug killing method! The clorox cleaner is especially good, but you need to be careful where you spray or you’ll have a bunch of bleached out spots all over your house!

    • Stephanie Harsh says:

      LOL I would totally try that, except when I am able to start spraying, I tend to close my eyes and run in the opposite direction as soon as I squeeze. I’d bleach everything!

  4. Christine says:

    Now that I have finally picked myself up off the floor from laughing so hard….

    Little tidbit I have found: Keep a bottle or two (you might run out of the first one) on hand at ALL TIMES. And please do the spiders a favor (and yourself) and don’t buy the “Green, Eco Friendly” shit. It takes them FOREVER to die from that stuff. Raid is almost instant.

Talk to me

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in: Logo

You are commenting using your account. Log Out / Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out / Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out / Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out / Change )

Connecting to %s